Wives, submit yourselves to your husband………………..Husbands love your wives~Ephesians5:22,25.
It is the duty of the man to love the woman, and the woman will respond to the love by respecting(or submitting) to the husband. Or, the wife respect the husband, and the husband will respond by showing her love. That is the natural sequence for relationship. The woman is created to be loved, so as a man, when you treat your woman with love, you bring out the best in her. The man is also created to be respected, so as a woman, when you respect(submit) to your man, you bring out the best in him, and both of you will have a very fulfilling Union together. When the man refuse to treat the woman with love, the woman will refuse to respect the man. When the woman refuse to respect the man, the man will refuse to treat the woman with love. In such a situation, there will always be chaos, and that is what leads to break-ups in relationships, and divorce in marriages.
Taking a cue from the first relationship on earth, which is between Adam and Eve. When GOD created Eve and brought her to Adam, he saw her and exclaimed; “Wooooooooooooooow”, he was amazed, which is an expression of love. So the first thing Eve experienced on earth was LOVE. In response to the love, Eve naturally began to respect Adam. She would prepare breakfast, lunch and dinner for Adam, until she prepared the fruit for Adam. It was all in the process of trying to respond to the love that Adam showed her. As a man, when was the last time you look at your woman and scream; “Wooooooooooooooow, you are beautiful!!! And you expect her to prepare a delicious meal for you, it does not work like that. As a woman, when was the last time you do something respectful and amazing to appreciate your man? And you expect him to give you money for jewelries, it doesn’t work like that.
Let us stop here on the relationship segment of Wisdom Bank, join us next week for the next episode of relationship segment of Wisdom Bank. Before then, Listen; AS A MAN, THE MOMENT YOU STOP SHOWING HER LOVE, YOU STOP LOSING HER RESPECT. AS A WOMAN, THE MOMENT YOU STOP RESPECTING HIM, YOU START LOSING HIS LOVE. THEREFORE, LET EACH ONE PLAY HIS OR HER ROLE EFFECTIVELY, AND THERE WILL BE ABUNDANCE OF JOY IN THE UNION FOREVER…BE WISE…!!!
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