Communication is the foundation of every friendship, relationship, courtship, marriage and even business. It is essential to keep the Union going. Any Union that lacks effective communication or pattern of communication is definitely heading for a crash, be it business-relationship family-relationship or even love-relationship. The best part of communication is listening, even beyond the spoken word. But sadly, when we were growing up, our schools, families and societies taught us how to read, write and speak fluent and effective grammar, but they never taught how to listen, which is the most important part of communication. Communication is said to be effective only when the person(s) involved in the communication understand the message.
Communication can also be defined as the ability to deliver the contents of your mind in a way that the person(or persons) involved can understand. If the persons involved cannot understand your message, it is your fault, not the person(or persons)’s fault. For example, if you are marketing a product to me and I am not buying, it is not my fault that I am not buying, it is your fault that you are not presenting the the product in a way that will persuade me. Do not forget, that our generation buys even what we don’t need, because of the way it is being presented.
May be ineffective communication is the reason why people are not buying the things you are offering them, even though you know they need it very much. May be ineffective communication is the reason why people are not listening to you, even though your words are true and most needed. May be ineffective communication is the reason why that guy or lady is not appreciating your love, even though your love is real and Heaven-sent. May be ineffective communication is the reason why that your relationship(even marriage) is crashing(or even crashed). Learn the principles of effective communication, and present your words in a way that people can understand the words you are yet to speak.
Wisdom Bank will round up here today. BUT JOIN US NEXT FRIDAY AS WE LOOK INTO THE COMMUNICATION DIFFERENCES IN GENDER. THERE ARE DISTINCT DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE WAY THE MALE AND THE FEMALE COMMUNICATES. THE LACK OF UNDERSTANDING OF THESE DIFFERENCES HAVE BROKEN MANY BUSINESSES, RELATIONSHIPS AND MARRIAGES. SO MAKE IT A DATE WITH WISDOM BANK NEXT WEEK…BE WISE…!!!
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