PRINCIPLES OF EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION (3)

  Communication is the foundation of every relationship or marriage. The height of every building is determined by the strength of the foundation. For example, the foundation required for building  a sky-scraper is different from the foundation required for building a bungalow. In the same vein, the longevity and the durability of a relationship is determined by the level of communication in the relationship. There are several dimensions to communication in a relationship, today, we will discuss one and discuss others subsequently.
  WORDS; Words are very powerful, it either build or destroys. Words are like egg, when an egg is broken, it cannot be put together again. In the same vein, when words are spoken, it cannot be drawn back. There are two kinds of words, namely; Constructive and destructive words. Constructive words builds while destructive words destroys. Destructive words should not be used in a relationship or marriage, rather constructive words should be used always. When your partner is wrong, instead of saying destructive words like; “This is a very stupid thing you have done”, you can say constructive words like; ” Honey, you should have done it this way”. Because the more you say destructive words to him or her, the more terrible him or her will become, but the more you say constructive words to him or her, the more him or her will improve and become a better person, a person to enjoy. Bad and hurtful words don’t change people, it is encouraging words that changes people.


  Words are also very powerful because they work with the Spirit. Their is a spiritual force behind every spoken word, to ensure the spoken word is fulfilled, and there is no joke in the Spirit realm. That is why the scriptures says; Life and death are in the power of the tongue~Proverbs18:21. Words are prophetic, every time you speak it into someone’s life, you are prophesying into the person’s life. So, what are you prophesying into his or her life? That is why the scriptures advises us in Colossians 4:6 that we should let our speech be always with grace, seasoned with salt, that we may know how we ought to answer every man. Every time we speak to our partner, we should be speaking grace. Therefore, there is need to always ask the Holy Spirit to teach us how to speak, especially when their is an important issue to discuss~Isaiah50:4.
  That is how far we will go to on the relationship segment of Wisdom Bank, do join us again next week as we continue to discuss the principles of effective communication. But go with this truth; INSTEAD OF RUSHING TO RESPOND TO YOUR PARTNER OVER AN ISSUE, WHY NOT TAKE OUT FEW MINUTES TO ASK GOD TO GIVE YOUR THE RIGHT WORDS. IF GOD SPEAKS THROUGH YOU, YOU WILL SPEAK CONSTRUCTIVE WORDS TO HIM OR HER AND YOU WILL MAKE HIM OR HER A BETTER PERSON… BE WISE..!!!
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CHRISTIANITY IS NOT A RELIGION

‚Äč     Do you think JESUS CHRIST would just come and die, just to add another religion to the religions in the world? Think about it. There are so many religions in the world, so JESUS did not come to add to it, but HE came to open our eyes to see that religion is not just the way to the FATHER, neither is it the only way to get what we want. If we look into the history of religion, we will discover that religion has not actually given us the Peace that we so much desire, but it has brought wars, because of difference in beliefs as a result of difference in religion. The Buddhists against the Hinduist, against Islam, against Judaism and so on. So, if you say Christianity is a religion, then you are saying JESUS CHRIST came to the earth to add another reason for war, which is not true. JESUS CHRIST came to abolish religion, it’s terrible outcome and to show us the way the way to the father.?
  Christianity is divinity inside humanity. It is living on earth just same way they live in heaven. The disciples were called Christians because they lived like CHRIST. The question now is how did CHRIST lived~Acts11:26? JESUS CHRIST lived a supernatural life, a life that is beyond the natural, which also means a divine life. HE exhibited divinity through humanity. That was the kind of life that the people of Antioch saw HIS disciple lived. In a bid to describe them as people that lived like CHRIST, they were called Christians. Therefore, Christianity is not a religion, but it is the transfusion of divine nature into human nature, which make the human become supernatural here on earth. When divinity enters into humanity, the human becomes a wonder to the world, he becomes a person of glory, just same way JESUS was a wonder and full of glory when HE was on earth. 
  Let us round up here today. But answer these questions; AM I TRULY A CHRISTIAN? AM I LIVING LIKE JESUS LIVED WHEN HE WAS ON EARTH? IS THERE ANYTHING SUPERNATURAL(BEYOND NATURAL) ABOUT ME? AM I A WONDER TO THE WORLD? IF YOUR ANSWER TO ANY OF THESE QUESTIONS IS NO, THEN YOU NEED TO PRAY THIS SIMPLE PRAYER WITH FAITH IN YOUR HEART;
LORD JESUS, I come to you today, I kmow I cannot save myself, please save me, please forgive me all my sins, I believe you died for me, and you Rose again on the third day for my justification and glorification. Thank you for saving me, now I know I am a new creation, and I am now a Christian. In JESUS NAME…..Amen.
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WHAT DOES CHRISTIANITY OFFERS?

   Value is a function of cost. The value of a thing is determined by its cost. The value of your life as a Christian is determined by the cost that is paid for you to be a Christian. You are very valuable to GOD, that is why HE could give HIS only begotten son for you. What a cost! That should tell you how valuable you are as a Christian. If you are not very valuable, do you think GOD would pay such a price to get you back? But GOD knows your worth, HE created you, so HE knows the worth of what HE has deposited in you, that is why HE paid such a huge price to get you. HE wants you to function in the capacity HE has created you to function, to explore the rich potentials HE has deposited in you. 
  Christianity offers you the ability to live the way GOD created you to live. It gives you the ability to fulfil the original purpose of GOD, which is for you to have dominion and rule over everything on the earth, while HE rules the heaven. You are not created to be ruled or dominated by the earth, just as it is these days. You are not created to be ruled by sickness and diseases, not to be ruled by failure, not be rule by the economy, Christianity makes you immune to all that! Christianity offers you the ability to live the way GOD lives in heaven here on earth, and no such things as sickness, economic downturn, disaster with GOD in heaven, so as a Christian, it ought not to happen to you, no matter how many people it happens to. That is why the scriptures say; “As HE is(in heaven), so we are(on earth)~1john4:17. Therefore, as a Christian what cannot happen in heaven should not happen to you.
  Let us stop here. But here is the truth; CHRISTIANITY OFFERS YOU THE ABILITY TO LIVE THE WAY GOD ORIGINALLY CREATED YOU TO LIVE. A LIFE THAT IS IMMUNE TO SICKNESS AND DISEASE, STAGNATION, FRUSTRATION. THAT IS THE VALUABLE LIFE GOD HAVE CREATED YOU TO LIVE, AND THAT IS WHY HE PAID SUCH A HEAVY PRICE TO MAKE YOU HAVE THAT VALUABLE LIFE BACK. YOU ARE VERY VALUABLE…BE WISE…!!! 
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PRINCIPLES OF EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION(2)

GENDER DIFFERENCES IN COMMUNICATION.

  Communication is the most important part of a relationship or marriage. The American psychologists said; communication takes 85% of a relationship or marriage, every other part are within the remaining 15%. This means that if communication gets affected, the joy, the vision, the business, the future, as in virtually everything gets affected. But as important as communication is, it differs in various gender. The way the male communicate is different to the way the male communicates. Lack of understanding of these differences have broken so many relationships and marriages.
  The male are logical being, while the female are emotional being. When a man is talking, he goes straight to the point, so that is exactly what he expects from the woman, because naturally every human being expects people to be like them. But when a woman is talking, she talks emotions, she may not have the right words to deliver the content of her heart, so she uses emotions, and also expects her man to understand her, because human being naturally expects people to be like them. So, the man expects his woman to understand him, but she does not understand him, because she does not understand words, she understand emotions. The woman also expects her man to understand her, but he does not understand her, because he does not understand emotions, he only understand words.


  Therefore, there is need for the male and female to have a perfect understanding of the way each gender communicates before moving starting a relationship. A lady may want to communicate with her man and be dragging words, the man being a logical being gets tired, and complains, which may make the lady say; “YOU DON’T LOVE ME”. When a lady says that to her man, she does not literally mean it(except in some cases), what she is trying to say is; You are not showing me love, or you are not caring or words like such. But a man that lacks understanding of the way the female communicates will react in defence, defending himself. NO!!! That is not what she meant, what she meant is that you have been saying it too much without showing it. She wants your emotion, not your words. She wants the gifts, the candle-light dinner, the beach-walk and so on, not your long love story(laughing).
  That is how far we will go on Wisdom Bank today. But the truth is; COMMUNICATION IS THE FOUNDATION OF EVERY RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE. THEREFORE THERE IS NEED TO SPEND QUALITY TIME TO LEARN HOW TO COMMUNICATE WITH EACH OTHER BEFORE STARTING. JOIN US AGAIN NEXT FRIDAY AS WE CONTINUE TO EXPLORE COMMUNICATION IN RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE…BE WISE…!!!
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LET YOUR LIGHT SHINE!

   Imagine if Kari Benz did not let his light shine by creating the automobile, which solved the problem of transportation, may be the world would still be facing transportation problems and be walking on foot for days on a journey. If Wilbur and Orville Wright did not let their lights shine by inventing the aeroplane, may be we would still be riding on horse-backs across deserts. If all the inventors and innovators did not let their lights shine, the world would not have been developed this far. This also means if you are not letting your light shine, you are denying the world of one development or the other, you are denying the world of one benefit or the other.
  Now think of how many people have been able to earn their living, enhance their vision and be able to pursue their dreams through the inventions and the innovations of those that had allowed their light to shine. Think of electricity, think of how many people have been trading and earning their living from electricity since it’s invention. Think of how many dreams it has helped to fulfil. I am sure that you know that without electricity, you won’t be able to watch that film you so much love to watch. The person that is created to act the film will also not be able to fulfil his or her dreams of acting films. In the same vein, so many dreams will not be fulfilled, so many destiny will be unrealistic and so many purpose will be frustrating if you refuse to let your light shine, and ultimately, GOD will not be happy with you. 
  Wisdom Bank will round up this way today; SOME PEOPLE HAVE SHED THEIR LIGHT(CREATED SOLUTIONS) FOR YOU NOT TO WALK IN DARKNESS(CONFUSION) IN THE QUEST TO FULFIL THE PURPOSE FOR WHICH YOU ARE CREATED. SO, YOU MUST ALSO LET YOUR LIGHT SHINE(CREATE SOLUTIONS), NOT BECAUSE OF YOU ALONE, BUT ALSO FOR OTHERS NOT TO WALK IN DARKNESS(CONFUSION). THEREFORE, LET YOUR LIGHT SHINE…BE WISE…!!!
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PRINCIPLES OF EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION(1)

  Communication is the foundation of every friendship, relationship, courtship, marriage and even business. It is essential to keep the Union going. Any Union that lacks effective communication or pattern of communication is definitely heading for a crash, be it business-relationship family-relationship or even love-relationship. The best part of communication is listening, even beyond the spoken word. But sadly, when we were growing up, our schools, families and societies taught us how to read, write and speak fluent and effective grammar, but they never taught how to listen, which is the most important part of communication. Communication is said to be effective only when the person(s) involved in the communication understand the message.

  Communication can also be defined as the ability to deliver the contents of your mind in a way that the person(or persons) involved can understand. If the persons involved cannot understand your message, it is your fault, not the person(or persons)’s fault. For example, if you are marketing a product to me and I am not buying, it is not my fault that I am not buying, it is your fault that you are not presenting the the product in a way that will persuade me. Do not forget, that our generation buys even what we don’t need, because of the way it is being presented.

  May be ineffective communication is the reason why people are not buying the things you are offering them, even though you know they need it very much. May be ineffective communication is the reason why people are not listening to you, even though your words are true and most needed. May be ineffective communication is the reason why that guy or lady is not appreciating your love, even though your love is real and Heaven-sent. May be ineffective communication is the reason why that your relationship(even marriage) is crashing(or even crashed). Learn the principles of effective communication, and present your words in a way that people can understand the words you are yet to speak.
  Wisdom Bank will round up here today. BUT JOIN US NEXT FRIDAY AS WE LOOK INTO THE COMMUNICATION DIFFERENCES IN GENDER. THERE ARE DISTINCT DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE WAY THE MALE AND THE FEMALE COMMUNICATES. THE LACK OF UNDERSTANDING OF THESE DIFFERENCES HAVE BROKEN MANY BUSINESSES, RELATIONSHIPS AND MARRIAGES. SO MAKE IT A DATE WITH WISDOM BANK NEXT WEEK…BE WISE…!!!
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DIVINE PROTECTION GUARANTEED.

    When you are going on a business trip for a company, they ensure there is need for adequate protection, for you not to suffer any damage, so that you can be able to represent the interest of the company in a suitable way. In the same vein, if you are doing the assignment that GOD sent you here on earth to do, HE will ensure that there is adequate protection for you, so that you can do the assignment suitably. GOD told Moses; “I send an angels to go before you as you go in the way~Exodus23:20”. This means that as long as Moses was going in the way that he was sent, the angels will keep protecting him, which also means that the angel is not obliged to protect him if he goes out of the way he is sent.

  When a company sent you on an assignment, they make arrangement for your protection for the trip ONLY. Any other trip you make is at your own risk. In the same vein, the protection of GOD is only guaranteed as you go in the direction HE sent you. HIS angels will only bear you up so that you do not hit your foot against a stone(Psalm91:11) as you go about doing the assignment HE has given you only. Every other things you do is at your own risk. That explains why people face so many attacks in life, because they go in their own way, not in the way they are sent, so they are responsible for protecting themselves, which they don’t have the ability to do. You may be wondering; ” but this person is a dedicated Christian, why is he always being attacked by the devil?” It is simply because he has gone out of the way his protection is guaranteed.
  That is how far we will go today on Wisdom Bank. But go with these words; BEING A CHRISTIAN DOES NOT EXEMPT YOU FROM THE ATTACKS OF the devil, IT IS BEING AN OBEDIENT CHRISTIAN THAT EXEMPTS YOU FROM THE ATTACKS OF the devil. THEREFORE, OBEY HIS INSTRUCTIONS AND DO WHAT HE HAS SENT YOU TO DO, THEN YOUR PROTECTION WILL BE GUARANTRED…BE WISE…!!!
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